Some thoughts again

Sometimes some people just cross their limits. They think they are indispensable and things cannot run without them. Sometimes people think too much from mind and become heartless. Maybe they are successful in whatever they do, but something remains amiss. They don't get peace , reason they never see beyond themselves. Self obsession is their hobby. They think of themselves to be the best but they fail to realize that where life changes every second , there is one gem emerging every moment. Wish people were modest along with being intelligent , we would have done away with lot of troubles all around sigh..................

Personal Spaces

We love certain situations in life and want it to be like that forever. But when it does then we do lose our interest in it. Then we think of something more , some changes , some variations.

How many times you have liked the company of a friend or a colleague but when we are meeting those people day in and day out what happens? Don't you think fine I need some space , some change.

Yes our personal spaces are very much important, however extrovert we may be , we may have large number of friend but some point of time we want some moments for just ourselves.

Man is a social animal , true but we all are at some point of times loners as well. We can be married or single , but we do need some time just for ourselves where we are only there without any interruption or disturbances.

I know people may not agree to my views and would say how is it possible we are loners .Just look into yourself ,do you not crave for some moments which you can just spend on yourself? Just give it a thought...

My Journeys

I am happy in mundane things.My daily routine in fact brings me close to myself. I get up in the mornings , get ready and reach my workplace.

I cherish the journeys between my home and office as I keep pondering about many things on my way. Lot of thoughts just engulf me that time when I am heading for my workplace.

Like where my life is going, some minor issues which may be troubling me or just some observations regarding where my life is going or I keep on looking listlessly at the objects passing by.

Then when I reach office suddenly my mind switches off what I was thinking earlier, instantly I now think of what is there to work. Work ensues interspersed with some pleasantries from the colleagues or some hearty discussions thrown here and there. And with that the day ends.

Now I start my return journey , usually I keep on listening to some songs or just keep on looking at the rows of trees passing by, the same road juncture , the round turn , the mad rush of the people returning home. Those moments are as if like refreshing drops of rain. Maybe it's too simple , too prosaic but it actually lets me connect to my thoughts which I hardly get time to relate to.

I think I should be thankful that my house is far from my workplace or else wouldn't have got time to engage in my thoughts.

Some forgotten moments

Past... it sometimes makes us and sometimes breaks us so to say. We sometimes cling so much to our past that we forget our present. We keep pondering over what happened earlier. Yes there are so many things associated with that , in fact a part of our being is always connected to past. So what do we do , shall we forget those moments or cherish them. Obviously there will be two types of opinions some would say we cannot detach ourselves from our past some would say it is better to move ahead.

We should welcome change and when time changes shouldn't we also adapt to that. But it is easier said than done. How can we just switch ourselves from what happened earlier and concentrate on what is happening now. An ideal situation will be just to sort the various events, what were good we keep it to ourselves and forget all that was bad . Yes but is it really possible to do so.Maybe not impossible but yes it is very difficult indeed. Sometimes our lives just end thinking what we may remember and what we should forget...

End is the Beginning

Sometimes end is just a beginning.In life there comes a point where continuation is a major problem then isn't it more worthwhile if you stop there and then only. There is no point dragging on when you are heading nowhere. Sometimes it also happens that we want things or situation in our own way but actually they are not destined to be that way. So they never happen in the way we want them. And when we stop the same then we realize after some time why they never happened our way. So we may feel bad when something stops but actually we should realize it's going on a right track.

Understanding

How many time you have been misunderstood? Well each one of us must be having our own story about that. You are something else , people find you someone else, you care for a person but that person somehow thinks you think bad about them. Why? Have you ever thought about it?
The point is that you may be wrong half the times but may be half the times you were right but you never let others know you were. Why? Because you thought if the people are not able to understand you they won't even understand your views. So what happens is that you continue to be someone different for others.
Do you think that matters? In most cases it doesn't, after all who cares how others see you as long as you know what you are.
But yes sometimes it does matter ,for some persons in your life but still you feel helpless you can't do a thing. Since you don't know whether to act logically and put your views forward or be on an emotional side and just be silent. No explanations... nothing...

Is this what you call taking life as it comes???

Relations - What's Strange about it

I know talking about relations in this little space is indeed funny. When the whole life ends and still you don't understand relations. But I am not going to say anything about relations what one should do, what not. I am going to just say about what is strange in relations. Well first thing is that there the more strong bonding you have , more you take things for granted. Not joking , try it. You get used to that relation, like say you take things easy. Human nature, we are just made like that. Then you realize the value of relation when it is finished not before that,hey I know some of you may be cursing me , ok agreed some of us are smart enough to know the value, but we are not talking about select few, but common people like me. Yes we depend on relations very much , "man is a social animal" as well know. But why is that it often happens relations just cannot depend on us? Come on folks rack your brains and come up with some good logic if you read my blog :)