I keep on learning from people.The more I interact with different people I understand one thing how much is there to know.Each facet of an individual is a lesson in itself. Experiences within a defined sphere is one thing but when it flows out of that boundary then the challenge begins.
How I should behave in a situation where I don't know the factors, don't have an inkling of the rules? It puzzles but it teaches as well.
We can always say we will do this or that.But what if there are no choices or say you just leave out the options. Yes the situation gets more challenging but the learning experience is also there.
It comes to me why I would leave out the choices,I can also say yes or no. Why I have to behave according to the situation, why not create a new situation rather than indulging in something where choices emerge.
But my question to myself is why there will be choices always. Why I will make it so easy for myself to opt in or opt out? Why not stay where I am? Point is why I will, my option is simple-I need to increase my boundary and when you are up to that you leave out the options isn't it. Just follow the path.
It may take me two minutes to go against something but what I would enjoy is spending moments,which teach me and tell one thing take life as it comes. Anyway it never gives you much of choice either accept it or go against it.
For me choices are in front of my eyes but I would rather not choose them :).
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Friday, June 4, 2010
I created I know
Something disturbs. When you give 100% and the output comes as 70% or even 60% and the rest are just fillers with no real value;that is the time to worry. You worry because apparently the output seems 100% but it's not.
Why the gap and why something superficial needed to fill in the gap? You worry more when you are involved in a process but someone else starts analyzing it. It's like someone just checks the output box in the flow chart and present the analysis.The input, the decision making, the throughput all is ignored.
This is the time when things take dangerous turn. It bends both ways, good or even crumble to worse. What to do? How to tackle this situation? You cannot repeat the same process again. You cannot change some one's analysis. You know only your process which you carved with determination and hard work.
This time you need to let things take their turn. Once you see it's changing for the worse you need to pitch in. Situation may have been turned against you, the process which you carried on will always be yours and no one can change it however hard they may try. Also they won't because the analysis is dependent on the process.
We can call a day a bad day or good day but it starts with a morning, evolves in a day, cools down in an evening and sleeps into a night. The process is the same, our analysis is different towards it. We can alienate ourselves from the analysis we cannot from the process.
And if a day is filled with wasted time and we say that the day is good that is entirely our fault. Since this good day is going to make us feel bad in coming days.Process and analysis should go on side by side not separately, it is bound to differ.
Why the gap and why something superficial needed to fill in the gap? You worry more when you are involved in a process but someone else starts analyzing it. It's like someone just checks the output box in the flow chart and present the analysis.The input, the decision making, the throughput all is ignored.
This is the time when things take dangerous turn. It bends both ways, good or even crumble to worse. What to do? How to tackle this situation? You cannot repeat the same process again. You cannot change some one's analysis. You know only your process which you carved with determination and hard work.
This time you need to let things take their turn. Once you see it's changing for the worse you need to pitch in. Situation may have been turned against you, the process which you carried on will always be yours and no one can change it however hard they may try. Also they won't because the analysis is dependent on the process.
We can call a day a bad day or good day but it starts with a morning, evolves in a day, cools down in an evening and sleeps into a night. The process is the same, our analysis is different towards it. We can alienate ourselves from the analysis we cannot from the process.
And if a day is filled with wasted time and we say that the day is good that is entirely our fault. Since this good day is going to make us feel bad in coming days.Process and analysis should go on side by side not separately, it is bound to differ.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Last call
I heard loud and clear,
It was just another call,
But this time the ears slept,
The heart soaked all the words,
The voice was never heard,
The feelings never lost,
I just heard that call...
It was just another call,
But this time the ears slept,
The heart soaked all the words,
The voice was never heard,
The feelings never lost,
I just heard that call...
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Take 25
This note I have written in Facebook,actually this was a part of an exercise which my dear friend @hnatarajan motivated me to do. He tagged me in a note which include 25 random thoughts about him, now whoever was tagged in the note also had to share 25 thoughts about themselves ranging from habits,interests,liking whatever which came to mind first. Presenting those 25 thoughts here.
1) Live life as it comes
2) Positive always,can't stay with negative feelings/thoughts.
3)Try to analyze things sometimes I fail sometimes I do succeed :)
4) Hope is a big word for me it is strength.
5) Thoughts pour in at odd times which I can't write then they either fade away or stay in me only.
6)I look forward to knowing more people, why just to understand my existence.
7) I tend to be philosophical.I think this much is enough.
8) I feel heart is more stronger than head believe it or not.
9) Everything has a reason so it happens.
10) I look forward to see myself in middle of politics one day
11) I left writing poems
12) I have become like an instant coffee more into tweets than blogs or posts.
13) Temper is one thing I need to control more,have done that mostly but still some work is left.
14) My patience level has increased, life was a strict teacher in this department.
15) I don't believe much in planning.
16) I generally don't take no for an answer :) like to persuade people,then I think maybe they are right and me wrong,maybe is the big word
17)I like being frank and want people also to be the same, mostly that doesn't happen though.
18) I lose patience when I have do something about me like am losing patience to write more about me here lol
19) I don't believe in stereotyped rules
20) I like discipline
21) Punctuality is something I admire
22) For me a work has to be done now,can't leave it for tomorrow
23) Am sensitive
24) I like to learn new things
25) I am lazy so am not checking what all I have written :)
1) Live life as it comes
2) Positive always,can't stay with negative feelings/thoughts.
3)Try to analyze things sometimes I fail sometimes I do succeed :)
4) Hope is a big word for me it is strength.
5) Thoughts pour in at odd times which I can't write then they either fade away or stay in me only.
6)I look forward to knowing more people, why just to understand my existence.
7) I tend to be philosophical.I think this much is enough.
8) I feel heart is more stronger than head believe it or not.
9) Everything has a reason so it happens.
10) I look forward to see myself in middle of politics one day
11) I left writing poems
12) I have become like an instant coffee more into tweets than blogs or posts.
13) Temper is one thing I need to control more,have done that mostly but still some work is left.
14) My patience level has increased, life was a strict teacher in this department.
15) I don't believe much in planning.
16) I generally don't take no for an answer :) like to persuade people,then I think maybe they are right and me wrong,maybe is the big word
17)I like being frank and want people also to be the same, mostly that doesn't happen though.
18) I lose patience when I have do something about me like am losing patience to write more about me here lol
19) I don't believe in stereotyped rules
20) I like discipline
21) Punctuality is something I admire
22) For me a work has to be done now,can't leave it for tomorrow
23) Am sensitive
24) I like to learn new things
25) I am lazy so am not checking what all I have written :)
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Our attitude should change
Professionalism- is it always required at work place or you need it in every sphere of life? Is it fine if you do your work with perfection but when it comes to home any social activity you can be relaxed. After all it doesn't matter even if the work is not done on time or there are errors.
Then can we say we are professional because there is a fear factor working in our minds which let us be efficient at work. What is the definition of expertise in home affairs. Who has mastered it then? The home maker be that a woman or a man won't you say that person has a professional approach?
In any social activity which we are doing what gets us there-we like it,we want to do it,we are doing it for a purpose. There we hardly think of being professional, we think the fact that we are doing it is enough, that we have taken time out to do something is an achievement in itself. Does it work like that?
What I feel is professionalism is required in all spheres of life be that our home affairs, managing a wedding,hosting an event or even celebrating something.Professionalism means doing things right and at the right time come what may. What is your opinion about this?
Then can we say we are professional because there is a fear factor working in our minds which let us be efficient at work. What is the definition of expertise in home affairs. Who has mastered it then? The home maker be that a woman or a man won't you say that person has a professional approach?
In any social activity which we are doing what gets us there-we like it,we want to do it,we are doing it for a purpose. There we hardly think of being professional, we think the fact that we are doing it is enough, that we have taken time out to do something is an achievement in itself. Does it work like that?
What I feel is professionalism is required in all spheres of life be that our home affairs, managing a wedding,hosting an event or even celebrating something.Professionalism means doing things right and at the right time come what may. What is your opinion about this?
Sunday, March 7, 2010
We adjust to be happy
We always hear this, we need to adjust.Adjustment so to say is part of our existence. We cannot ignore it in fact it can be dangerous for us if we try to do so. But when the question comes how much we should adjust then all the trouble starts.
We are never clear about that. We go all our way to adjust for a situation and then what happens we are not in that situation, we are at the back seat. It usually happens that people take us or we take the people for granted. Not a perfect situation.
Can we say that when we are happy in adjusting that is actually the ideal adjustment. How beneficial it will be for other person or situation. Well even if the adjustment is 10% less than what it had been if we had not put our feelings in it, the result will always be good. Success rate more than when you are unhappy and giving in to situation since you have to do it.Here you have to do it but you are not doing it actually. The mechanical aspect doesn't help.
What I feel yes we should adjust but only that much which we do with full heart, rest just leave it. Either way the thing is not going to work if it's not working with your full engagement. If life asks for full engagement,situations as well, they are not separate from life are they.
We are never clear about that. We go all our way to adjust for a situation and then what happens we are not in that situation, we are at the back seat. It usually happens that people take us or we take the people for granted. Not a perfect situation.
Can we say that when we are happy in adjusting that is actually the ideal adjustment. How beneficial it will be for other person or situation. Well even if the adjustment is 10% less than what it had been if we had not put our feelings in it, the result will always be good. Success rate more than when you are unhappy and giving in to situation since you have to do it.Here you have to do it but you are not doing it actually. The mechanical aspect doesn't help.
What I feel yes we should adjust but only that much which we do with full heart, rest just leave it. Either way the thing is not going to work if it's not working with your full engagement. If life asks for full engagement,situations as well, they are not separate from life are they.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Mixed emotions
One thing we all dread is mixed emotion. You feel bad about something and at the same time you are happy. Why our thought process is so complex? Or is it that our feelings don't emerge easily.
We have become quite advanced compared to previous generations but have we got any success in the emotional sphere. Are we not lagging behind there? We also rejoice over the fact that we hide our emotions very cleverly.Are we able to hide or we kill it? "Emotional fool" what is the definition of that term. Who is emotional genius then and how is that person different from the geniuses we see everyday. Here I mean the ones who use their brains in the best possible way.
Coming back to mixed emotions.Since we are emotionally intelligent it happens or we are fools and it is a logical result of that? Does the situation make us think that way or we view the situation in a way to give it double tinge?
We have become quite advanced compared to previous generations but have we got any success in the emotional sphere. Are we not lagging behind there? We also rejoice over the fact that we hide our emotions very cleverly.Are we able to hide or we kill it? "Emotional fool" what is the definition of that term. Who is emotional genius then and how is that person different from the geniuses we see everyday. Here I mean the ones who use their brains in the best possible way.
Coming back to mixed emotions.Since we are emotionally intelligent it happens or we are fools and it is a logical result of that? Does the situation make us think that way or we view the situation in a way to give it double tinge?
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